Donald Trump’s presidency was far from ordinary, and alongside the political drama, his private life with Melania Trump also attracted a lot of attention and speculation—especially about their marriage and living arrangements in the White House.
One of the most talked-about rumors was that the Trumps didn’t share a bedroom during their time in the White House. According to Michael Wolff’s 2018 book Fire and Fury: Inside the Trump White House, Donald and Melania were the first presidential couple since John and Jackie Kennedy to sleep in separate rooms. Wolff claimed that Donald Trump even insisted on having a key to his bedroom to lock out both Melania and the Secret Service, all so he could enjoy some late-night solitude with McDonald’s cheeseburgers and watch three different TVs at once.
However, other insiders have painted a different picture of their relationship behind closed doors. Earlier in 2025, a Daily Mail source told the Irish Star that, despite having separate bedrooms—Donald in a room adjacent to the famous Yellow Oval Room—the couple still enjoyed dinner together every night. The insider compared their relationship to that of Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip, who also famously kept separate bedrooms but maintained a long and happy marriage. The source emphasized that having separate bedrooms wasn’t a sign of a troubled relationship, noting that White House staff actually liked the Trumps during their first term and sensed a positive, comfortable atmosphere in the residence.
After all, the White House is a massive home, boasting 132 rooms, 35 bathrooms, and six levels—there’s plenty of space to accommodate personal routines and preferences.
Trump has also shared memories of the couple’s first night in the White House after winning the 2016 election. Speaking at a fundraiser for his ballroom project, Trump recalled standing in the residential hallway with Melania, looking into the Lincoln Bedroom. He described the experience as “surreal,” marveling at their new home and the historic significance of the place. “It takes a while to get [used to it],” he admitted, “I’m still not, probably, used to it. It’s just a special place, what can I say. So we have to take care of it.”
All in all, while rumors about the Trumps’ marriage and nighttime habits certainly fueled speculation, glimpses from insiders and Trump’s own remarks suggest a more nuanced, private side to their relationship—one balancing personal space with shared moments.