It has been just over a month since Charlie Kirk, the founder of Turning Point USA, was shot and killed during an event at Utah Valley University — a tragedy that sent shockwaves through the nation. Now, his widow, Erika Kirk, has shared a deeply emotional moment that has left millions of supporters in tears: the birthday message their young daughter wrote to her late father.
Charlie Kirk, who would have turned 32 this week, was posthumously awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom by President Donald Trump in a moving White House ceremony that brought together family, colleagues, and supporters. Erika, standing alongside her two children, accepted the award on his behalf and delivered a speech that was both heartbreaking and inspiring — but it was her daughter’s innocent words that silenced the room.
Taking to social media after the ceremony, Erika shared a photo of a crayon-colored note written by her daughter, Gigi, that read:
“Happy birthday, Daddy. I want to give you a stuffed animal. I want you to eat a cupcake with ice cream. And I want you to have a birthday surprise. I love you.”
The message, simple and pure, instantly went viral. Within hours, it had been shared by thousands of followers across platforms, with messages of sympathy and love pouring in from around the world. “It’s a child’s way of saying what we all feel — that he’s still here with them in spirit,” one supporter wrote.
During her speech at the White House, Erika recalled the family traditions that made Charlie’s birthdays so special. “Every year, we had mint chocolate chip ice cream,” she said, smiling through tears. “It was our thing — just on his birthday and the Fourth of July. Gigi loved it. So this week, we’ll have it again for him.”
She went on to thank President Trump for honoring her husband, describing the moment as both surreal and healing. “The very existence of the Presidential Medal of Freedom reminds us that the national interest of the United States has always been liberty,” she said. “Charlie lived for that — and he died believing it was worth defending.”
Friends and colleagues describe Erika as “unbreakably strong,” though many admit her pain is visible beneath the composure. “She’s holding it together for her children,” said one Turning Point USA staff member. “But losing Charlie left a void that can’t be filled. He was a husband, a father, a friend, and a leader who believed young people could change the world.”
Erika has largely stayed out of the public eye since her husband’s death but has continued his mission quietly, taking over aspects of Turning Point USA’s leadership and speaking privately with faith-based and youth organizations about resilience, purpose, and faith through loss.
“Charlie always said that freedom was a calling, not a career,” she told attendees at the memorial service in Glendale, Arizona, where more than 20,000 people gathered to pay tribute. “Now, I understand what he meant — because carrying on his legacy is what keeps me going.”
Her post about Gigi’s note has since become a symbol of that ongoing legacy — a reminder of the love Charlie left behind and the hope that continues to grow in his absence.
“Children see the world differently,” Erika wrote in her caption. “They don’t measure loss in years or politics — only in love. And love never dies.”
As the family celebrated what would have been Charlie’s birthday, friends said the day was filled not with speeches or ceremonies, but with quiet remembrance — laughter through tears, mint ice cream in the kitchen, and stories about the man who lived for faith, family, and freedom.
For Erika and her children, the pain remains, but so does the purpose. And in a small, hand-drawn note from a little girl to her father, the world saw that love, even after death, still finds a way to speak.